A Nigerian marriage therapist, Shamseddin Giwa, has suggested Muslim girls to grasp that polygamy is permissible in Islam and get used to it earlier than marriage.
“The shock for a lot of Muslim first wives begins when the husband pronounces the choice to take one other spouse given the mindset and upbringing that in case you do your greatest your husband won’t want one other,” he wrote in a Fb put up on Thursday.
The reality: Chances are you’ll be the very best spouse and your husband nonetheless desires one other.
Chances are you’ll be lower than common and your husband doesn’t take one other.
It’s not all the time about you. A person who will marry one other spouse, will marry one other spouse.
From there, the bitterness units in and a battle mode engaged in the direction of the incoming spouse who could even be making an attempt her personal greatest to make issues work.
Understanding what’s permissible in Islam and aligning earlier than marriage helps to deal with many of those points. Might Allaah make it straightforward.
