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Love has no guide, no patterns, or formulation—it merely unfolds fantastically on the proper time. At nearly 50, Nigerian gospel artist Segun Obe discovered love and married his Ghanaian soulmate, Nita.
The primary chapter of their love story started 5 years in the past when Nita got here throughout his ministration on-line. In a society the place love usually comes with expectations and timelines, Segun’s journey provides a refreshing perspective. We had the chance to interview Segun and listen to his ideas on discovering love later in life, the challenges, the thrill, and the way their religion performed a pivotal position in bringing them collectively. We’ve additionally acquired pretty images from their marriage ceremony and their love in every body is so magical… you definitely wish to preserve scrolling to take all of it in!
Get pleasure from their white marriage ceremony images under and see their pre-wedding shoot right here:
How did you meet Nita?
My companion heard about my voice coaching workshop (voice it out with Segun Obe) and she or he got here all the way in which from Canada to attend one of many editions. I used to be tremendous touched by this gesture and I saved in contact together with her. Our chats have been like individuals who had recognized one another for years and flowed naturally… Her stage of humility and deep data of God and His phrase additionally wowed me. This went on for about 4 years and as they are saying “the remainder is historical past”
Nita and Segun additionally had their conventional marriage ceremony and right here’s the way it went:
What have been a number of the key elements that led to you deciding that this was the correct time?
God’s methods are NOT our methods neither are his ideas our ideas. God speaks to my spirit and I hear it loud and clear… and after I hear from my heavenly Father (as a gospel artist,/youngster of God) I run with it. I knew precisely what I wished in my spouse (mannerisms) and she or he checked all of the packing containers, Very thoughtful, right down to earth, caring, loves the Lord together with her complete coronary heart, and belief me, any lady who can love and passionately observe a God she can’t bodily see could have no challenges loving a person she sees day by day, my spirit informed me it was time and I made my transfer… easy.
How has your perspective on marriage developed over time?
The advantage of getting married at my age (I’m gonna be 50 in October this yr by the way in which so technically I’m 49, hehehehe) is that you’ve seen life in it’s fullness and nothing “shacks” you once more. At that age, you make a holistic choice in terms of life’s decisions. It’s now not about physique form and so forth at this age/stage however extra about connection and deep emotions… This isn’t to say everybody ought to get married at 50 oooooo, however then everybody’s story is completely different and that is my story. Any regrets marrying at this age for me??? NONE WHATSOEVER
Was there any strain from your loved ones to get married and the way have been you in a position to deal with it?
Stress was my center title truly throughout that interval however I knew what I wished and by no means allowed the strain to prevail. Getting a divorce 3 years after getting married as a result of strain ain’t a sworn statement belief me. l know who I’m and WHOSE I’m. In order that makes it simpler to chill out in God and look forward to my time and season. I’d somewhat have a peaceable house than a house stuffed with conflict simply trigger I wished to marry early. Nita is my peace and I’m glad I waited, although it was a painful course of however nothing good comes out of consolation zones. Ache brings out one of the best in anybody who is able to undergo the method howbeit arduous and tough. I suppose I’d say in conclusion GOD KEPT ME and I imply that in each sense of the phrase… Glad it resulted in reward… hallelujah to Jesus.
Credit
Bride: @nita_segunobe
Groom: @iamsegunobe
Wedding ceremony Planning & Coordination: @crystal_haze_events
Make-up: @reggies_makeovers
Hairstylist : @hairmony_gh
Images: @sorce_photography
Videography: @niihammondconcepts_gh
Trad decor: @detailed_event
White marriage ceremony & Reception decor: @safs_event_hub
White marriage ceremony Reception Venue: @mseden_eventcentre
