A Nigerian physician, Obianma Onyia, has mentioned {that a} man who makes his spouse take permission from him earlier than visiting her mother and father has failed because the chief of his dwelling.  

The 52-year-old mom of three said this in a Fb submit on Monday, January 22, 2024, after her earlier submit raised eyebrows amongst Nigerian males on-line. 

“Should you marry my daughters and they should take permission from you to go to me at any time when they deem match irrespective of how distant they keep from me, I’ll personally come and take them away from you,” the earlier submit learn. 

Let me inform you now, I’ve by no means sought permission. My hubby and I didn’t elevate them to suit into the prevailing master-servant relationships that apparently plague marriages in Nigeria at present (sure coz this complete flawed idea is new to me).

“However I paid bride worth”- you say.

Bride worth is merely a token of dedication and never a logo of possession.

You have to be stark raving mad in case you assume that your depressing 10,000 (and even 100k) is sufficient to purchase a full grown human being whose mother and father used a number of hundred thousands and thousands to coach… or does it cowl for all the opposite sacrifices made that cash can’t purchase???