Every year, once mid-November hits, Nigerians already know what is coming. Lagos especially begins with plans for concerts, club nights, beach raves, and endless events.
The streets fill up with returning friends and family who have been abroad all year, ready to enjoy the famous “Detty December” lifestyle. The energy is exciting, the music is loud, and the nightlife feels unstoppable.
Detty December has become a tradition. It is a time to forget stress, celebrate wins, and catch up with people you only see once a year.
Still, while everything looks glamorous from the outside, the experience can also come with serious stress that leaves many asking if it is even worth it.
So what makes Detty December stressful?
Transport becomes a wallet problem
Rides that are normally affordable suddenly cost two or three times the usual price. Everyone is moving at the same time.
There are airport runs, club drop-offs, private parties, and events happening all over the city. Ride-hailing apps notice the rush and increase prices. Even after New Year’s Day, the cost does not drop immediately. For regular workers and students, moving around becomes a big financial headache.
Traffic will test your patience
Lagos traffic is already wild. Detty December takes it to another level. Short distances turn into hours on the road. People spend so much time in traffic that by the time they arrive at the party, they are already tired.
Some even cancel plans halfway because the gridlock is unbearable. The fun quickly starts to feel like punishment.
Businesses face trust issues
This season is a money-making period for restaurants, lounges, hotels, and transport operators. Yet, many of them have become extra careful. Some visitors who come with stylish accents and foreign cards enjoy the services, travel back abroad, and later dispute payments.
That creates losses for the businesses. It has forced many operators to insist on Nigerian cards or cash only. The boom comes with real risks.
Looking good gets too expensive
Everyone wants to look fresh when the cameras come out. Hair, nails, makeup, outfits, everything must be on point. Since demand is high, prices jump. What you paid in October will not be the same in December.
While some returning Nigerians see these prices as cheap compared to abroad, regular Lagosians are the ones who feel the pinch. There is pressure to keep up, even when your wallet is begging you to calm down.
Finding accommodation becomes a struggle
Hotels and short-let apartments get fully booked months before the holidays. Last-minute bookings become almost impossible or extremely overpriced.
Even locals who just want a small getaway inside the city have few options. Visitors with foreign currency usually take the best spaces.
Is it worth it?
Detty December is a special moment in Nigerian culture. It brings joy, money, and unforgettable memories. People reunite and celebrate life with full energy. Yet the stress is real.
The cost of enjoyment rises. Moving around becomes a battle. Not everyone has the financial strength to join every party.
The truth is simple. Detty December is worth it if you plan well, spend within your means, and know when to rest. You do not have to attend every concert.
You do not have to impress anyone. Pick what matters, enjoy responsibly, and focus on experiences that make you happy. Fun is sweet, but peace of mind is sweeter.

