Moving to a new country may seem exciting, but it also means playing by a new set of rules. Some behaviours that feel normal at home can clash with local laws and etiquette overseas. 

If you’re relocating for school, work, or family, here are five common Nigerian habits to watch out for and safer alternatives that can help you stay out of trouble and blend in more easily.

1) Loud conversations in public

Back home, animated chats and booming phone calls are part of the vibe. In many European and Asian cities, though, loud public talking is seen as disruptive and can draw complaints or even fines on public transport.

Do instead: Lower your voice on buses, trains, and in queues. Take long calls outside or in designated areas.

2) Ignoring traffic rules

Crossing anywhere, dashing across at amber, or “one-waying” might feel routine. Abroad, jaywalking and running red lights are taken seriously and can lead to tickets or arrest in some places.

Do Instead: use zebra crossings, obey pedestrian signals, and familiarise yourself with local road rules before driving. Fines are costly; points on a licence can affect insurance and jobs.

3) Spraying money at events

“Spraying” is a beloved celebration back home, but in many Western countries, it can be treated as defacing currency or raising money-laundering flags in venues and banks.

Do Instead: celebrate with envelopes, gift cards, or digital transfers. Ask event hosts what’s acceptable before the party starts.

4) “Settling” officials

Offering “something for the boys” to speed things up is bribery elsewhere and a criminal offence that can get you jailed, fined, or deported.

Do instead: Follow formal procedures, keep receipts, and escalate through official complaint channels if you’re treated unfairly.

5) Flexible timekeeping (“African time”)

Running late is often forgiven at home. In most countries, punctuality signals respect and reliability. Chronic lateness can cost you grades, promotions, or trust.

Do instead: Aim to arrive 10–15 minutes early. Use calendar reminders and factor in transit delays you’re not used to yet.