Clergyman, Mike Bamiloye, has decried the extent of unpreparedness for marriage amongst many younger Nigerians.
In a publish shared on his Instagram web page on Monday, April 24, Bamiloye stated many younger Nigerians put together extra for his or her wedding ceremony than learning on the way to make their marriages work.
He acknowledged that so many women, even at age 28, will not be spouse materials as they can not prepare dinner and are used to consuming quick meals and others. He added that so many women will not be spiritually robust in prayers for marriage and have hallow data of the phrase of God.
‘’RED FLAG ALONG THE WAY
I’m so afraid of the Youths of this Era.
Many will not be Making ready sufficient to enter into Marriage. Many are very Shallow of their data of Marriage. They Put together extra for the Marriage ceremony Day, than for the Marriage Life. No Deep research on what Marriage Entails.
They’re too hasty and never Able to Sit down and Be taught the Ideas of Marital Life.
Many Women will not be certified to be WIFE even at 28.
They Can’t prepare dinner correctly. They’re used to Quick Meals on the Eateries, and Ice Cream and Indomie and Spagetti plus boiled Eggs and Titus, and so they spend six months learning the marriage Robes and the equipment for the Bridal Trails.
AND THEY WANT TO MARRY.
My Expensive Sister is 26, by she remains to be not but a Spouse Materials.
However she is Stunning,
However she cannot prepare dinner.
She just isn’t Spiritually Sturdy in Prayers.
And he or she has a shallow data of the Phrase of God.
How would she face up to the non secular challenges that comes towards each residence now?
How would she take her stand within the Phrase of God towards each wiles of the DEvil that blow towards each Christian House now?
Too materialistic and little or no data of House Administration.
The Different time a pal of hers was going to her husband’s home,
She went with a giant BOOK OF COOKERY, which was Revealed in UK.
Sadly, there was no Recipes for the cooking of Nigerian meals.
Then I used to be instructed she downloaded some Functions on her Android cellphone on How To Cook dinner.
She spent a number of months making ready for Marriage ceremony Day,
However few second to Research what Marriage Life is.
If LOVE IS BLIND AT COURTSHIP,
IT IS MARRIAGE THAT WILL OPEN THE BLIND EYES.
Now, Our Younger Sisters are being taught HOW TO WALK OUT OF MARRIAGE.
Lots of them are dashing in and they’re being taught How To Rush Out of It when issues will not be Understanding as Anticipated.
I AM AGAINST ABUSE TO WOMEN.
I AM AGAINST ABUSE TO WIVES.
A MAN THAT BEAT OR TORTURE HIS WIFE IS AN ANIMAL, UNFIT TO LIVE AMONG HUMAN.
THE BIBLE SAYS, HE HAS DONE IT TO HIMSELF.
and, THERE ARE ALSO MANY ABUSES GOING AGAINST MEN IN THE CLOSETS.
Nevertheless, we are actually having too many Breakings and Separations and Divorce amongst Youngsters of God.
When issues don’t go as anticipated, it turns into INCOMPATIBILITY.
And our youths, particularly Women are being taught to Stroll out of the Marriages.
So at present, many Younger Marriages will not be fulfilled.
Each Marriage has its tough edges.
However you must Sharpen the Tough-Edges.”